it's when you spend so much time mending broken relations with others and fighting to bring things back to the way they once were, even when you did nothing to break them or jeopardize them in any way....
that you realize maybe you're not the one who should be apologizing; you're not the one with the problem.
ps. half of the people in these pictures on my side bar don't even talk to me anymore. as far as I'm concerned, there's no use in constantly changing it; it's going to keep changing anyways.